Thursday, February 1, 2007

Writing

I haven't always liked to write. Truth be told, I hated writing up until my Freshman year in college. In high school I struggled with the various writing assignments in my class; it just didn't come easily to me like my other endeavours.

When I started keeping an online journal during my first year in college, I realized how much I actually liked writing. I do like telling stories, relating personal experiences to my friends, and taking down observations I've come across during the day. It gave me a new sense of satisfaction to relate my experiences to others. And I really liked the idea of sharing myself and my thoughts with people I didn't know.

I didn't realize how much I enjoyed writing until I received a disturbing email from a high school friend concerning a situation at our
alma mater. Her email urged us to sign a petition of sorts. I didn't agree with her. My mother is a teacher at that school and the people there are like family. Instead I wrote a passionate letter to the principle and president of the school, telling them to not change a thing, supporting them in their decisions, and urging them not to make a decision that would destroy the very reason so many alumnae find that school like a second home.

I had something to say and I said it. And a year later I found out that it actually made a difference. Someone heard what I had to say. It was gratifying to know that I didn't waste 6 hours of my life, drafting and re-drafting the letter, researching old school facts, and talking to classmates that agreed with me.

I know I'm not the best writer; I'm definitely not the best typist. But I want to be, I want to master the
English language so that I can communicate to whomever I want about my experiences, ideas, and convictions. One thing that I know will hinder me is the very fact that I don't like to struggle. Most things come easily to me, but writing isn't one of them. But I hope that my perfectionist attitude and need to prove myself will help me succeed.

In 25 years,
I'll be working at an art gallery or small museum as a project manager or curator. I'd be writing articles for various art magazines, informing the public about various art shows. Occasionally I'd write an article for The Soccer Journal on coaching. In my spare time, I'd coach a youth soccer team.

Flyers

Sacramento, California - The library quad is littered with people, specifically people with flyers. At the beginning of each semester it's the exact same thing. In order to get from one end of the quad to the other, it's necessary to face the gauntlet of fraternities, sororities, special interest groups, and of course 24 Hour Fitness. It's interesting, no amusing, to see the various techniques that both prey and predator use in order to survive.

So what are the most common techniques to avoid the unwanted?

1. The White Rabbit

When passing through it's best to look as though you know where you are going. It's even better if you look like you're running late; anxious glances at your watch are always a nice touch. At the beginning of the semester
no one is going to doubt your sincerity. If you're ever in doubt, it's okay to run.

2. Take It and Trash It

Sometimes walking quickly isn't enough. There are those who will chase after you, papers flapping in their hand and before you know it you've been "flyered." In order to avoid the speech that accompanies the flyer, most students have learned to not only walk briskly, but also occasionally stick out a hand to take the flyer. Once the paper goes from one hand to another the naive predator feels as though they've won something, namely you. Little do they know that their flyer will not be appreciated. The experienced have learned to take the paper, count to ten and shove it in the nearest trash, pocket, or bag.

3. The Cell Phone Wanderer

Others have learned to avoid the
flyers completely by striking up a conversation on their cell phone while passing through. This is possibly the best way to avoid any unwanted solicitors. Most people will respect your privacy, allowing you to amble through without a care in the world. But beware; there are those who will interrupt that important call with mom.

Now how does one counter these techniques. There are variety of ways to draw anyone of the
aforementioned quarry back into your domain.

1. The Fuzzy Wuzzy

There aren't many who can pass up something fuzzy. Any type of pet is a sure bait, especially for the fairer sex. Beware however, that your furry friend will get more attention than your organization.

2. "Free" Candy For Your Soul

Most college students can't pass up food, especially when it's free and fattening. All you need to do is exchange that tootsie pop for an email address or phone number and the promise that they'll "think about it." It's a good idea to offer food that requires time to eat, that way you're ensured a certain amount of time to make them hear you out.

3. Now You See It, Now You Don't

By far the most innovated technique was used by James as we tabled out on the quad for Alpha Phi Omega. We only had one flyer, because our chapter is not only small (only comprising of six actives), but also cheap. So in order to sign up prospective pledges without losing the flyer, James came up with the brilliant idea of shocking people in order to get their attention.

James would wait for his prey, casually holding out our only flyer, baiting the unsuspecting Take It and Trash It. Once they'd go for the bait, James would quickly snatch it away and ask, "Are you
really interested?"

I didn't believe until I saw, but it worked.

"It really shocks people," he told. "And makes them actually want to listen." And most do listen intently to what he has to say about our Co-Ed National Service Fraternity on campus. And while he received his fair share of rejections, he took it all in stride, "At least they're honest. Plus this way we only sign up those who really are into it."